Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Here's a Tip

How much should you give as a Christmas bonus to the people that serve you during year? Here are some suggestions:


Tipping experts say, and tip recipients implied, that cash is the best way to say happy holidays. "Tipping is not a time to try and be original," said Hilka Klinkenberg, founder of Etiquette International.

Other tipping tips include...


  • If you frequent a restaurant daily, it's a good idea to tip your regular waiter. An extra $5 in a card is a kind gesture at your regular lunch spot, while at the Four Seasons you could shell out $40-$50, plus similar amounts to the maitre and captain.
  • You don't have to give as much to the new hairdresser, doorman, etc. because you haven't forged a relationship with them yet.
  • Alcohol is not recommended. Just because you
    may enjoy the extra splash of cheer, it might not be right for someone else.

    CHILD CARE
    Babysitter 1 evening's pay + small gift
    from child
    Au pair 1 week's pay or a gift + small gift from child
    Nanny 1 week's to 1 month's pay + small gift from child
    Daycare providers $20-$70/each + small gift from child
    Child's teacher Gift (but check the school's policy to see if it's allowed)
    Coaches, tutors, music teachers, ballet instructors, etc: A small gift from the child

    HOME/CAR CARE
    Housekeeper 1 week's pay or more (depending on length of service)
    Trash collectors $15-$20 each
    Parking attendants $10-$35 each or up to half a
    month's parking bill for the group if they regularly provide extra service
    Gardener $20-$50. If the gardener's last job before spring is a fall clean up, it's best to tip in the fall

    APARTMENT SERVICE
    Doormen $25-$100 each (those who provide the most service for you should get more than those whom you barely see)
    Superintendent/custodian $50-$300 (tip more if
    there's no doorman and the service has been particularly attentive, but tip less if you tip throughout the year)
    Porters/handymen $10-$50 each
    Elevator operators $15-$40 each

    PERSONAL CARE
    Hairdresser Cost of 1 cut (or $20-$100) if you go frequently + small gift
    Manicurist Cost of 1 session (or $10-$50) + small gift
    Personal trainer $25 up to 1 week's pay (or cost
    of 1 session)
    Massage therapist $50-$100 or cost of 1 session

    PET CARE
    Dog groomer Small gift + 1/4 to 1/2 the cost of 1
    session
    Dog walker/regular dog sitter Cost of 1-2 week's pay (as with a
    nanny, a small gift is optional)

    DELIVERY SERVICES
    U.S. mail carrier Gifts under $20*
    UPS Company policy discourages drivers from accepting tips, but they can accept something of nominal value. Tipping guides offer $15 as a guideline, but the amount and choice of gift are up to you.

    FedEx Company policy does not permit cash tips, but a gift worth up to $25 is okay.
    Paper carrier $15-$25 for daily delivery ($5-$15 for
    weekend delivery)
    *Civil servants are not allowed to receive cash tips. But
    if you wish to recognize your mail carrier, the U.S. Postal Service asks that your gratuity not exceed $20 in cash value.

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